“Thanks!”giving
As another Thanksgiving comes to a close, I sit – computer in hand – thinking of all there is to be thankful in our world today. Ok – perhaps mostly in my little corner of that world – but you know what I mean, right?
Family
I’m thankful for my two incredibly smart and absolutely beautiful granddaughters. I simply cannot imagine not being a regular part of their lives at this time. Seeing Lilly’s smiling face on the mornings I get to take her to school – chatting over eggs and oatmeal – the little rituals that we’ve fallen into for those days. Love it! Getting to hear Kaylee putting more new words together in sentences from one visit to the next (sometimes just a couple of days apart!) – watching her little personality develop right before our eyes. Priceless! And of course getting to see the girls play together – watching Kaylee’s face light up when she sees Lilly – or Lilly being so tender while helping Kaylee with her coat or some other little task…simply magic!
I’m also thankful for my two fabulous kids. They are both such good parents – and I have to say , that is so wonderful to get to see on a regular basis! And I would be horribly remiss if I didn’t say I was thankful that they each have wonderful people to share their lives with. The one thing that I think all parents agree on, is that we wish for our children to find happiness. To have someone to share your life with, to be your partner is truly a gift, and both our kids have that – and for that I am thankful.
I’m thankful for my wonderful, fabulous, generous, supportive husband. He is my best friend – my champion – my rock – my world.
Of course I’m thankful for the other members of our family – we may not see them very often, or call nearly as often as we should – but they are family, they are a part of who we are – collectively and apart. Their presence in our lives serves as that warm breeze lifting us up and bringing a smile to our face on a dreary day.
Friends
I’m thankful for all the talented, beautiful, strong people that I can proudly call friends. Some are friends from many years past (Love ya Red!), some are just far enough away to make visits a rare treasure (Marna, Bob, Billie….and MANY more!!), and some are new friends – from new endeavors (and rejuvenated old ones!) just beginning to take form. All unique – All wonderful – All Treasured.
Life
There are so many other things in my life for which I’m thankful – and there’s no way I could possibly list them all:
My two funny dogs – pets hold special places in our hearts, and these two certainly are no different. I’m thankful to have these furry angels in my life.
My time – I have the ability to have time to do enjoy many of the blessings mentioned above…taking Lilly to school, playing with Kaylee, catching up with friends on the computer or phone, playing with the dogs…not everyone gets that chance – or when they do, it’s too late.
My volunteer work – I’m thankful for having found an organization that speaks to my heart, and the ability to have the time to give…which is very much due to the support and encouragement from my husband and family.
So to wrap this up –
Another Thanksgiving has come and gone. But does that mean we can’t be thankful for the special people and things in our lives after today? Does that mean we don’t talk about, tweet about or share on Facebook and with the world how thankful we are for the special people or things in our lives? Maybe I’m just getting sentimental and sappy in my old age (no comments folks!) – but I think it would be so nice to hear or read more “updates” like this on a regular basis – don’t you?
Pass It On!
Birthday Ponderings
It seems that every year that goes by brings new revelations – new “lessons learned” in life – and new appreciations for so many things. And this year is no different.
While celebrating yet another birthday I have been reminded of a few things all over again:
The Value of Family – Yesterday I got to spend time with both our kids (and their loved ones), our two granddaughters and of course hubby and our puppers. We had a great time just hanging out, watching the little ones play, watching a little football (ok, that was the guys) and just simply enjoying being together. Something that I know doesn’t sound like a lot – but it was an absolutely perfect way to spend my “pre-birthday” celebration. Every day is precious, and every day that I get to see one of my kids or lovely granddaughters is an absolute treasure. And I L.O.V.E. that I get sooo many of those “treasures” these days!
The Value of Friends - I have been very fortunate to have the opportunity to meet, work with, and hang out with some amazing people over the years. From my school years, to my kids’ school years – from Kansas, to Oklahoma, to Missouri and so far beyond that! So many fabulous people — so many wonderful memories (for the most part anyway! LOL) — and so many hilarious stories! (hmmm…..anyone out there worried about that??)
Today – so many people have taken time out of their busy day and sent a quick note wishing me well on my “special” day. Enough so that I am feeling a bit humbled, flattered, and flabbergasted all at once. I am truly touched, and feel so blessed to have such people in my life today, and I thank everyone for thinking of me today and sending such wonderful thoughts and wishes.
So – my biggest “lessons learned” this year?
Don’t ever take the days for granted ~ Remember to enjoy a little one’s laugh, a loved one’s hug, a friend’s hello, a dog’s wagging tail ~ Days are short, Memories are long…fill them both with Love!
Pass It On!
More Than $1.5 Million Approved for Crisis Counseling for Missourians Affected by Recent Disasters
The following is a reprint of a recent FEMA Press Release.
Release Date: July 26, 2011
Release Number: 1980-130
» More Information on Missouri Severe Storms, Tornadoes, And Flooding
COLUMBIA,Mo.– The Federal Emergency Management Agency (FEMA) has approved an Immediate Services Program (ISP) grant for more than $1.5 million to the Missouri Department of Mental Health for crisis counseling services for survivors of the recent severe storms, flooding and tornadoes.
“Losing a home, business or personal property to the severe weather we’ve recently experienced takes not only a financial toll on survivors, but also levies an emotional impact,” said Libby Turner, head of the federal recovery effort for this disaster. “This grant demonstrates the commitment of FEMA and the state to those suffering the emotional toll of this disaster.”
Crisis counseling helps disaster survivors deal with the normal stress brought on by an abnormal situation. Common reactions to a disaster may include nightmares, difficulty sleeping, feelings of being overwhelmed, hopelessness, increased anger or aggression, domestic violence, frustration, and feelings of powerlessness. These feelings can be exhibited by people of all ages. Children and the elderly are particularly vulnerable to post-disaster stress.
Crisis counseling is available for those who live and work in disaster-affected counties. Those who need help may call one of the Access Crisis Intervention (ACI) hotline numbers below. Lines are open 24 hours, daily.
Behavioral Health Response ACI
1-800-811-4760
For residents of St. Francois andSt. Louis counties
Burrell ACI System
1-800-494-7355
For residents of Stone and Taney counties
Burrell Behavioral Health
1-800-395-2132
For residents ofPettisCounty
Clark Center ACI
1-800-801-4405
For residents ofLawrenceCounty
MOCARS ACI
1-800-356-5395
For residents of Bollinger, Butler, Cape Girardeau, Carter, Dunklin, Howell, Mississippi, New Madrid, Pemiscot, Reynolds, Ripley, Scott, Stoddard and Wayne counties.
Ozark ACI
1-800-247-0661
For residents of Jasper, McDonald andNewton counties
Pathways ACI
1-800-833-3915
For residents of Phelps and Pulaski counties
Disaster recovery assistance is available without regard to race, color, religion, nationality, sex, age, disability, English proficiency or economic status. If you or someone you know has been discriminated against, call FEMA toll-free at 800-621-FEMA (3362). Those with a speech disability or hearing loss, who use a TTY, should call 800-462-7585; or use 711 or Video Relay Service (VRS) to call 800-621-3362.
FEMA’s mission is to support our citizens and first responders to ensure that as a nation we work together to build, sustain, and improve our capability to prepare for, protect against, respond to, recover from, and mitigate all hazards.
Remember folks
Be Aware ~ Be Informed ~ Be Safe
Pass It On
FEMA Registration Deadline Extended to July 29
(Orginally shared by Region VII FEMA VAL – Jono Anzalone)
Release Date: June 28, 2011
Release Number: 1980-094
COLUMBIA, Mo. — At the request of the state of Missouri, the Federal Emergency Management Agency (FEMA) has extended the deadline for renters, homeowners and business owners who suffered damages from the severe storms, tornadoes and flooding to register for state and federal disaster assistance. The new deadline is July 29, 2011.
“We’ve extended the deadline to allow people more time to register for assistance and to return their SBA loan applications,” said Libby Turner, FEMA’s federal coordinating officer for the disaster. “If you had damage or uninsured losses and have not yet registered, we urge you to do so today.”
After registering you may receive a Small Business Administration (SBA) low-interest disaster loan application package in the mail. Complete the loan package and return it promptly. You are under no obligation to accept the loan if approved. The SBA application is a necessary step in the recovery process and to be considered for other forms of FEMA disaster assistance.
You do not need to return the application to be considered eligible for temporary housing assistance, and grants for public transportation, medical, dental or burial expenses.
Registration may be completed online at www.DisasterAssistance.gov, by smartphone through m.FEMA.gov, or by calling FEMA’s toll-free registration line at 1-800-621-FEMA (3362). If you have a speech disability or hearing loss and use a TTY, call 1-800-462-7585 directly; if you use 711 or video Relay Service (VRS), call 1-800-621-3362. Multi-language assistance is available. Telephone registration is available daily from 7 a.m. to 10 p.m., until further notice.
Assistance to individuals can include grants to help pay for temporary housing needs, essential home repairs and other serious disaster-related expenses not covered by insurance or other sources. Low-interest disaster loans from the SBA are also available for homeowners, renters and business owners to repair or replace real or personal property.
“After you register, an inspector will call to make arrangements to visit your damaged home or apartment,” Turner said. “Ask for identification when an inspector arrives. FEMA and SBA inspectors all have photo identification badges and there is no fee for their inspections.”
Applicants are reminded to keep their FEMA information updated, but not to register twice. Duplicate registrations will delay processing an application.
Renters, homeowners and businesses in the following 25 Missouri counties are eligible to apply for disaster assistance: Bollinger, Butler, Cape Girardeau, Carter, Dunklin, Howell, Jasper, Lawrence, McDonald, Mississippi, New Madrid, Newton, Pemiscot, Pettis, Phelps, Pulaski, Reynolds, Ripley, St. Francois, St. Louis, Scott, Stoddard, Stone ,Taney and Wayne counties.
FEMA’s mission is to support our citizens and first responders to ensure that as a nation we work together to build, sustain, and improve our capability to prepare for, protect against, respond to, recover from, and mitigate all hazards.
The U.S. Small Business Administration (SBA) is the federal government’s primary source of money for the long-term rebuilding of disaster-damaged private property. SBA helps homeowners, renters, businesses of all sizes, and private non-profit organizations fund repairs or rebuilding efforts and covers the cost of replacing lost or disaster-damaged personal property. These disaster loans cover losses not fully compensated by insurance or other recoveries and do not duplicate benefits of other agencies or organizations.
FEMA’s temporary housing assistance and grants for public transportation expenses, medical and dental expenses, and funeral and burial expenses do not require individuals to apply for an SBA loan. However, applicants who receive SBA disaster loan applications must submit them to SBA loan officers to be eligible for assistance that covers personal property, vehicle repair or replacement, and moving and storage expenses.
Disaster recovery assistance is available without regard to race, color, religion, nationality, sex, age, disability, English proficiency or economic status. If you or someone you know has been discriminated against, call FEMA toll-free at 800-621-FEMA (3362). Those with a speech disability or hearing loss who use a TTY call 1-800-462-7585; or use 711 or Video Relay Service (VRS) to call 1-800-621-3362.
Last Modified: Wednesday, 29-Jun-2011 09:11:10
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Important Guidance on Helping Disaster Survivors – Donations
A second disaster threatens to overtake Joplin MO by way of a tidal wave of unsolicited goods (things like clothing, miscellaneous household items, mixed or perishable foodstuffs, diapers…) and volunteers who just show up to help. Critical resources are being redirected from the important work of response and relief to managing what has become a crush of unneeded donated items. Social networking sites are promoting collection drives while radio stations, small and large businesses, business and fraternal organizations and churches around the country fill semis with items that threaten to crowd warehouses and overwhelm distribution channels in the impacted area.
Your help is urgently needed to stem the flow of unneeded goods and volunteers into Joplin. You are encouraged to reach out to your employees, customers and other constituents on how those wanting to help can do so in a way that doesn’t cause further impact, but rather aids in the response and recovery effort.
The following guidelines were developed by a coalition of government, voluntary agency and faith-based partners:
- Cash to a recognized voluntary agency is the single best way to help disaster survivors. Cash doesn’t need to be sorted, stored or distributed, and it allows the voluntary agency to the donation towards the needs that most urgently need addressing.
- Visit http://sema.dps.mo.gov/recover/donations.asp to donate to the Missouri tornado recovery effort.
- For information on other ways to help go to: www.fema.gov/rebuild/recover/howtohelp.
My Turn
Recently, several of my FaceBook friends “shared” or “liked” a study released by the US Fire Administration discussing findings regarding the vulnerability of children in fire. I must admit, I’m a bit tardy in joining in on the discussions – but it is a topic that I feel is worth repeating ad nauseum, so I’ll take my turn now.
And since there is some absolutely wonderful information already posted – it’s going to be an easy, and fairly short rant.
- Fact: Fires occur
- Fact: Fires can occur anywhere, anytime
- Fact: Fires destroy, kill, and maim
- Fact: Smoke detectors save lives
- Fact: The very young and the elderly are at a greater risk
- Fact: Our children rely on us for much of their care and instruction
- Fact: Even very young children can learn basic Fire Safety for the home and school
- Fact: The learning begins with you – and it can begin right now
Some fabulous resources are available from FEMA and the American Red Cross - share with the special child(ren) in your life – you’ll be glad you did!
That’s about it – for now anyway – Pass It On!
Be Aware ~ Be Informed ~ Be Safe
And Now….A Word from Winter…
Well, I’ll just bet y’all thought I’d decided to simplify my life (and yours!) by reducing my electronic footprint. *Snort!* You should be so lucky! I was just caught up in all the pre-post-Holiday fal-der-al and trying desperately to get back on track. Not so sure I’m back on track…but Old Man Winter is rattling my window panes so I felt compelled to jot a few notes for everyone. And of course, if you’re taking the time to read this….you know the rules! You must share the information with someone….anyone….I don’t care who…just be sure to share!
So what could possibly be so earth shattering that I had to sign on this blustery afternoon?
Cold. Bitter, Bone-Chilling Cold. Not just chilly mind you. Chilly would be, say, somewhere in the 20degree neighborhood. Our weather forecasters are calling for wind-chills over the next 24hours or so, to dip down to 15-20degrees below zero. Yes….below zero! So I thought I’d shoot out some general reminders for folks.
- Do you know someone who lives alone and doesn’t really have anyone to check on them? Be a good neighbor/friend/citizen and check on them. There are so many people who cannot afford to properly heat their homes and care for themselves in these extreme cold snaps. Those who are vulnerable in the best of times (the very old, very young, socially isolated, economically restricted, etc.) become even more so during extreme situations. How tragic to read in the newspaper about the elderly woman down the street that died of exposure and no one knew for a few days.
- Do you know how to keep your water pipes from freezing? What to do if they do? Some very simple actions like (1) Running even just a trickle of water through your faucets, (2) Leaving under-sink cabinet doors open to allow room heat to circulate can help keep your pipes from freezing when the temperatures dip to dangerous levels. If your pipes do freeze, never use open flame sources to thaw. Be sure to leave faucets on at a trickle so that as the water thaws it can continue to drip/run out.
- Keep in mind that alternate heating sources may lead to other problems. Space heaters can be used to help out, but be sure to use them safely. Never around loose fabrics (draperies, loose bedspreads) and never leave them unattended. Remember the days of turning on the gas oven and opening the door? Carbon monoxide buildup in the home, or pilot light malfunction could prove to be disastrous! Candles do not put off enough heat, but you might be surprised at how many people with try it. Again – the fire danger far outweighs any possible benefit. And no….you cannot bring your gas grill into the house to heat it up!
- Do you have a fireplace that you use? They’re wonderful, but please be sure to maintain it properly. Check the inside for cracks or other signs of wear and tear. Have it cleaned and inspected yearly to make sure there isn’t a buildup of creosote, or something blocking the airflow (like a bird’s nest). Woodburning? Then only burn wood in it…not newspaper, books, magazines, etc. Some materials can emit toxic fumes when burned or become very much “airborne” thus increasing the risk of sparks escaping the fireplace.
- If you must leave the warmth and comfort of your home, be sure to dress appropriately. Layers are your friends. They may not be very fashionable, but they will definitely help you tailor your warming needs to the situation. Hats, gloves, socks, coats, jackets, pants…you name it. More is better if the temps are trying to run off the thermometer! And if you’re out and about running errands, be sure to pay attention to your vehicle as well. Make sure you have a full tank of gas (in case you get stuck in traffic), some emergency supplies in your trunk (blanket, flashlight, jumper cables, etc.), all fluids are checked (windshield washer, anti-freeze), and your tires are in good condition.
There is tons and tons of information out there — and if you’ve been clicking on the links above, you’ll be well on your way to skulking it out. The main thing is to be informed. Listen to the weather so you know when these weather events are going to happen. Listen to the experts - TV, radio, internet – they’re all around us, and they are all wanting to help YOU be safe! And finally (my favorite part here…), share the information you do find. Tell your friends, family, co-workers, neighbors…anyone who will listen.
Be Aware ~ Be Informed ~ Be Safe
Stay Warm – Stay Safe!
As the temperatures continue to dip, many individuals and families may find themselves turning to space heaters as either a primary source of heat, or as a supplemental source. For these folks, space heaters are a necessary tool for getting through the winter. Many who are on fixed incomes, have recently lost their jobs, or are just simply struggling to make ends meet in this economy cannot afford the high price of natural gas to heat their home. Some use the space heaters to help heat smaller areas, or serve as a “boosters” for their heating system…trying to keep their thermostat lowered to save money, but need a smaller area a little warmer. Whatever the situation…the space heater does indeed have the ability to make an unbearable situation a bit more bearable.
A couple of weeks ago I wrote about a woman who had been using a space heater that had been repaired at some point in time. Definitely a bad idea. But even space heaters that have not been repaired and/or altered can pose a major fire hazard if not used wisely. Just this morning, I was called to a mobile home fire that is believed to have been caused by a space heater that had tipped over. Fortunately, everyone was able to get out safely, but the family has lost everything. And that was actually the second fire within just hours … both listing space heaters as the suspected cause.
If you must rely on this type of appliance, please be sure to use it safely. Some simple safety suggestions:
- Keep all potential sources of fuel like paper, clothing, bedding or rugs at least three feet away from space heaters, stoves, or fireplaces.
- Portable heaters and fireplaces should never be left unattended. Turn off space heaters and make sure any embers in the fireplace are extinguished before going to bed or leaving home.
- If you must use a space heater, place it on a level, hard and nonflammable surface (such as ceramic tile floor), not on rugs or carpets or near bedding or drapes. Keep children and pets away from space heaters.
- When buying a space heater, look for models that shut off automatically if the heater falls over as another safety measure.
You can find more fire prevention tips by visiting the American Red Cross website’s page on Preventing Homefires. Additional information on Home Heating Safety Precautions is also available from the National Fire Protection Association…definitely worth the read!
It’s a fact that we have to be very creative in today’s economy to keep things together — and to make ends meet. But while we’re keeping things together, and trying to stretch those ends together somehow, don’t forget “keeping the family safe” in the equation. Check out the info, ponder it a bit, and then do something really great…Pass it On!
Stay Warm All — but Stay Safe!
Happy Thanksgiving All!!
Tonight, I think I’ll wander off my typical path. Oh, don’t get me wrong …I’m still gonna put something out there that is hopefully worthy of “Passing It On”…but I’m taking a different direction than what I typically post. You see…tonight, I’m feeling all warm and fuzzy inside. Sitting here with one dog snoring next to me on the couch, the other lounging at my feet and hubby happily clicking away on his computer as well…Life is indeed good. Very good.
I’m feeling especially thankful this year. Not that I’m not thankful the rest of the time, but for some reason I’m feeling it a bit more this year.
- I’m thankful that I get to see my kids so much more than I have in years past. After relocating in 2002 our visits became much more sporadic and infrequent. I missed so much with them — well, let’s face it…I just plain missed them. Last year we made the move back to the Kansas City area…and are so much closer to both the kids now. I love knowing they can (and do) stop by just to say ”hi” and chill for a bit. Drop in for dinner, meet us for dinner a movie or whatever, come over to watch a favorite show together…sigh….good stuff!
- I’m thankful that I get to see my husband so much more than last year. Sounds a bit odd, huh? But when we made the move last year, it wasn’t a complete move…lots of commuting back and forth, long days between weekends…especially during the winter months. Boy, how I prayed for NO SNOW or ICE! But that’s all behind us now.
- I’m thankful that I get to be a part of both my granddaughters’ lives. Spending time with those two little rays of sunshine means more than you could imagine. (Although, if you’re a grandparent, you probably can!) I love getting to see Lillian as often as I do — taking her to school, running errands, spending time in the sunroom doing “projects”, or just chilling in the TV Room watching a movie. I’m enjoying it so much — and hope that some of the things we do will become little snippets of memories for her as she gets older. Then there’s Kaylee. Walking into a room and seeing her smile in recognition, or hold her arms up just asking to be picked up…yep – I’m a sucker for it! I love thinking about the two girls getting together here…hanging with Gramma…oh the things we be able to do as a trio!
- I’m thankful that my dogs are both healthy and enjoying life. (Ok – anyone who knows me knew that was gonna make the list!) A lot of time last year was spent worrying about Chy and whether or not she’d regain the use of one of her legs. Well, I’m happy to report that she is walking and running about like she didn’t have a care in the world. Why should she? I’m the one doing all the worrying! Every time I see her take off across the yard after her sister I cringe inside. But she’s happy – having a good time tormenting Cherry just like always – she’s not speedy by any means, but she’s happy.
- I’m thankful I have the opportunity to do something I love – which is volunteer for the Red Cross. I get to work with some amazing people, doing some amazing things for our community. And – I have the support and encouragement of my family, which makes it possible for me to give my time and even more enjoyable.
There’s so much more I could ramble on about — but that would make this a very long and drawn out post — not my intention at all. But I did want to share one more thing with folks…something I saw in today’s paper, that serves as an excellent tribute to the ideal behind Thanksgiving.
(From Dear Abby’s column, dated 11/24/2010)
Oh, Heavenly Father,
We thank Thee for food and remember the hungry.
We thank Thee for health and remember the sick.
We thank Thee for freedom and remember the enslaved.
May these remembrances stir us to service,
That Thy gifts to us may be used for others. Amen.
Have a safe and happy Thanksgiving, everyone!
(Pass it On!)


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